I heard the other day that people on average take about nine months to adjust to retirement. I found that rather comforting as, against all expectations, I am finding it rather hard to come to terms with it. I say "against all expectations" because I had hoped that the fact of working from home for the last 15 years would stand me in good stead. But it hasn't worked out that way. Whenever I sit about doing nothing in particular, reading a book or a newspaper, watching TV etc, the tension very soon begins to mount and I feel I should be setting my hand to something useful, like writing this blog for example. I suppose the explanation is not hard to find: if you all of a sudden take away the rigid framework imposed by years of adhering to a timetable, then you're bound to find yourself running around like a chicken with its head cut off. In my case, I can't help feeling that the situation is aggravated because my work in recent years consisted of striving to meet a series of deadlines in the context of my status as a self-employed translator. There are no more deadlines to be met but the stress lingers on!
Not that I'm complaining. For the likes of me, its just a question of getting into and out of habits. The people who have my sympathy are those who find themselves unemployed whilst still in their prime and/or with a family to support. That's a different kettle of fish entirely.
J'ai hérité ça de toi, je suis exactement pareil - même sans être à la retraite !!
ReplyDeleteMoi pas du tout. Moins j'en ai à faire, mieux je me porte !
ReplyDeleteI used to be like that when I was your age! For example, I had no trouble at all, and no feelings of guilt, in drifting off to sleep for hours at a time while your grandfather showed slides of his expeditions in the Algerian desert...!
ReplyDeleteOh yes, the horror of those sessions! To me, that was the epitomy of boredom and uselessness (and hypocrisy, since I would now and then exclaim how beautiful and fantastic I thought the stupid slides were...)
ReplyDeleteGreetings Barnaby
ReplyDeleteI am still at work though many who retired from my firm in previous years worryingly keeled over after a year or two - the points you raise are v. important.
Possibly in the UK the current default age 65 retirement age will be abolished by whichever party wins the next election. Even if so the idea of not retiring until virtually senile seems just as unattractive as having to retire earlier than one wishes - help...
Well, Anonymous, all I can say is I just hope your grandfather doesn't have access to this blog!!
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment, Jerry. You have brought home to me just how complex the whole question of retirement is. I would like to come back to this some time!
ReplyDelete... which is why it was very strategically written in English!
ReplyDeleteI see!
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